ABOUT KYLIE
Thoughtful care, shaped by
training, research, and empathetic understanding
MY PRACTICE
I am a psychologist working with adults and couples, with particular interests in spiritual abuse and harm, religious trauma, adult grooming and exploitation in spiritual or high-control contexts, and Moral OCD or scrupulosity. My work supports people recovering from high-control environments and the aftermath of coercive or controlling relationships.
My practice is faith-affirming. I understand the meaningful role that religious faith and spirituality can play in people's lives, and I work in a way that respects each person's beliefs, values, and spiritual journey.
I also work with couples, supporting partners through relationship distress, communication difficulties, ruptures of trust, and the longstanding patterns that can shape how two people relate to one another.
Alongside this focus, I see clients navigating a broader range of complex emotional and relational difficulties — including trauma, emotional dysregulation, shame, and longstanding patterns rooted in early relational experiences. I also support people experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, and OCD.
My clinical approach is grounded in schema therapy, which offers a structured and compassionate framework for understanding how early patterns develop and why they continue to shape thoughts, emotions, and relationships in adulthood.
My work is informed by training, research, and experience across private practice, health, education, and community settings. I have published research on control, attachment, and emotional regulation, and previously worked in domestic and family violence response roles. This background shapes a trauma-informed, faith-affirming, and ethically grounded approach that pays close attention to power, safety, and the relational context in which distress develops.
A practice shaped by
curiosity, compassion, and care
MY STORY
Some of my story…
Long before my professional work as a counsellor and psychologist, I remember being a person who was deeply curious about the inner worlds of those around me. From an early age, I noticed emotional shifts, questioned why people behaved the way they did, and tried to make sense of reactions that felt confusing or disproportionate. I had a natural inclination to look for patterns and connections, and a strong desire to understand not just what was happening, but why.
As I worked across a range of settings, I consistently observed how people responded to life’s challenges, often in ways that led to further distress, confusion, strained relationships, and sometimes harm to others. While the circumstances varied, I began to recognise that patterns of behaviour and emotion were often shaped by maladaptive attempts to protect against vulnerable feelings, or against the possibility of feeling exposed, criticised, or rejected by others.
That curiosity eventually led me to study psychology. Today, as a psychologist, that same drive continues to shape my work and my interest in schema therapy. A desire to deeply understand others, and to hold complexity, has guided both my personal journey and my professional practice. It informs the way I listen, conceptualise, and work with people—with curiosity, compassion, and an appreciation for the patterns that quietly shape our responses to the world.
My practice was created to provide thoughtful psychological care that helps people understand their experiences of distress in context, and to support change, moving out of survival patterns toward greater flexibility, agency, and wellbeing. Providing a faith-sensitive approach is important to me. In my practice faith, values, and belief are never assumed or imposed, but are held with care if they are meaningful to you.
At its core, my practice exists to provide a place where patterns can be named honestly, change can be worked toward deliberately, in a way that holds the complexity of your story and any trauma and hardship you have endured. I want to help you to make make sense of your experiences and move forward in a way that is consistent with your values.
“Our stories shape how we see ourselves and the world around us. I hold each story with care and respect, offering trauma-informed support that honours your beliefs, values, and lived experience.”
— KYLIE WALLS
BACKGROUND
Qualifications & training
REGISTRATION & MEMBERSHIP
Registered Psychologist - Psychology Board of Australia
Australian Association of Psychologists (AAPi)
International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST)
Christian Counsellors Association of Australia (CCAA)
Registered Teacher, Queensland College of Teachers (QCT)
EDUCATION
Master of Psychological Practice, CSU
Master of Education (Guidance and Counselling), QUT
Bachelor of Psychological Science, UNE
Bachelor of Education (UQ)
Bachelor of Music (UQ)
THERAPY TRAINING
Individual & Couples Schema Therapy
Gottman Method Couples Therapy - Level 1 & 2
Eye Movement Desensitisation Therapy (EMDR)
Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT)
CBT ~ Exposure & Response Prevention ~ DBT
AREAS OF INTEREST
Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma, High Control Religion & Cults
Moral OCD & Scrupulosity
Sexual Grooming and Exploitation, and Coercive Relationships
Spiritually Sensitive Mental Health and Ministry Support
Mental Health Support
Inclusive, client-led care
I have a particular interest in working with people from faith-based and spiritual contexts, and warmly welcome clients from all backgrounds and worldviews.
RECENT CONVERSATIONS
Recent publications & media
PODCAST
The Controlling Church - With All Due Respect Podcast
Apple Podcasts · 2025
A conversation on coercive control, spiritual abuse, and the psychological dynamics of high-control religious settings.
PEER-REVIEWED ARTICLE
Published research - control, Attachment & Shame in intimate relationships
Journal of Family Violence, 2024
Control in intimate relationships: An exploration of insecure attachment styles, emotion dysregulation, and shame-proneness
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ARTICLE
Why Women Seeking Therapy is Framed As a Spiritual Problem - And Why That Needs Re-examination
The WADR Project · 2026
A response to a recent Gospel Coalition article, examining how women’s mental health is too often dismissed in faith contexts.
My approach is…
EVIDENCE-BASED
Support is grounded in well-established psychological research and clinical approaches shown to be effective, while remaining responsive to your needs and goals.
COMPASSIONATE
Care is offered with warmth, empathy, and respect, creating a safe space where you can be heard with understanding.
TRAUMA-INFORMED
Therapy recognises the impact of past and present trauma, prioritising your safety, choice, and sense of control throughout the process. Trauma-informed approaches are used.
RESPECTFUL OF YOUR UNIQUE SITUATION, RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AND STORY
Support is tailored to your lived experience, values, and worldview, with sensitivity to cultural, spiritual, and personal contexts.
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