about kylie wallsThoughtful care, shaped by
training, research, and empathetic understanding
My work is shaped by professional training, research, and experience across private practice, health, education, and community settings. I currently support adults and couples who are navigating complex emotional and relational difficulties, including the impact of trauma, abuse, coercive or controlling relationships, and longstanding patterns that interfere with well-being and connection.
I have worked with individuals and couples experiencing relationship distress, emotional dysregulation, shame, and difficulties rooted in early relational experiences. My clinical approach is grounded in schema therapy, which provides a structured and compassionate framework for understanding how early patterns develop and why they continue to shape thoughts, emotions, and relationships in adulthood. As a psychologist, I support individuals with a range of mental health challenges, including stress, anxiety, depression, and OCD. I have a particular interest in supporting people experiencing spiritual abuse and religious trauma, those recovering from high-control environments, those navigating complex relationships, and those experiencing moral OCD or scrupulosity.
Alongside clinical practice, I have published research examining control, attachment, and emotional regulation, and previously worked in domestic and family violence response roles. This background informs a trauma-informed, ethically grounded approach that is attentive to power, safety, and the relational context in which distress develops.
A practice shaped by
curiosity, compassion, and care
my practice
Long before my professional work as a counsellor and psychologist, I remember being a person who was deeply curious about the inner worlds of those around me. From an early age, I noticed emotional shifts, questioned why people behaved the way they did, and tried to make sense of reactions that felt confusing or disproportionate. I had a natural inclination to look for patterns and connections, and a strong desire to understand not just what was happening, but why.
As I worked across a range of settings, I consistently observed how people responded to life’s challenges, often in ways that led to further distress, confusion, strained relationships, and sometimes harm to others. While the circumstances varied, I began to recognise that patterns of behaviour and emotion were often shaped by maladaptive attempts to protect against vulnerable feelings, or against the possibility of feeling exposed, criticised, or rejected by others.
That curiosity eventually led me to study psychology. Today, as a psychologist, that same drive continues to shape my work and my interest in schema therapy. A desire to deeply understand others, and to hold complexity, has guided both my personal journey and my professional practice. It informs the way I listen, conceptualise, and work with people—with curiosity, compassion, and an appreciation for the patterns that quietly shape our responses to the world.
My practice was created to provide thoughtful psychological care that helps people understand their experiences of distress in context, and to support change, moving out of survival patterns toward greater flexibility, agency, and wellbeing. Providing a faith-sensitive approach is important to me. In my practice faith, values, and belief are never assumed or imposed, but are held with care if they are meaningful to you.
At its core, my practice exists to provide a place where patterns can be named honestly, change can be worked toward deliberately, in a way that holds the complexity of your story and any trauma and hardship you have endured. I want to help you to make make sense of your experiences and move forward in a way that is consistent with your values.
Some of my story…
my story“Our stories shape how we see ourselves and the world around us. I hold each story with care and respect, offering trauma-informed support that honours your beliefs, values, and lived experience.”
— kylie wallsBACKGROUND
Qualifications & training
REGISTRATION
Registered Psychologist - Psychology Board of Australia
Australian Association of Psychologists (AAPi) Member
International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST) Member
Christian Counsellors Association of Australia (CCAA) Member
Registered Teacher, Queensland College of Teachers (QCT)
EDUCATION
Master of Psychological Practice, CSU
Master of Education (Guidance and Counselling), QUT
Bachelor of Psychological Science, UNE
Bachelor of Education (UQ)
Bachelor of Music (UQ)
THERAPY TRAINING
Individual & Couples Schema Therapy
Gottman Method Couples Therapy - Level 1 & 2
Eye Movement Desensitisation Therapy (EMDR)
Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT)
CBT, DBT, ACT, ERP
AREAS OF INTEREST
Coercive Control, Domestic Violence, & Confusing Relationships
Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma, High Control Religion & Cults
Moral OCD & Scrupulosity
Sexual Grooming and Exploitation, and Coercive Relationships
Mental Health & Challenges in Ministry Contexts
Inclusive, client-led care
I have a particular interest in working with people from faith-based and spiritual contexts, and warmly welcome clients from all backgrounds and worldviews.
RECENT CONVERSATIONS
Recent publications & media
PODCAST
The Controlling Church - With All Due Respect Podcast
Apple Podcasts · 2025
A conversation on coercive control, spiritual abuse, and the psychological dynamics of high-control religious settings.
PEER-REVIEWED ARTICLE
Published research - control, Attachment & Shame in intimate relationships
Journal of Family Violence, 2024
Control in intimate relationships: An exploration of insecure attachment styles, emotion dysregulation, and shame-proneness
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ARTICLE
Why Women Seeking Therapy is Framed As a Spiritual Problem - And Why That Needs Re-examination
The WADR Project · 2026
A response to a recent Gospel Coalition article, examining how women’s mental health is too often dismissed in faith contexts.
My approach is…
evidence basedSupport is grounded in well-established psychological research and clinical approaches shown to be effective, while remaining responsive to your needs and goals.
compassionateCare is offered with warmth, empathy, and respect, creating a safe space where you can be heard with understanding.
Trauma-informedTherapy recognises the impact of past and present trauma, prioritising your safety, choice, and sense of control throughout the process. Trauma-informed approaches are used.
respectful of your unique situation, beliefs and storySupport is tailored to your lived experience, values, and worldview, with sensitivity to cultural, spiritual, and personal contexts.
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