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Disrupted Attachment, Control, and Emotion Dysregulation: A Path to Violence in Netflix's Adolescence
Netflix’s Adolescence offers a powerful lens on disrupted attachment, emotional dysregulation, and controlling behaviour in young people. Drawing on attachment theory and published research, this article explores how insecure and disorganised attachment, online environments, and unmet emotional needs can contribute to instability, aggression, and relational harm during adolescence.
Scrupulosity and Attachment to God: Why Early Bonds Can Make Faith, Life and God Feel Scary
Scrupulosity—religious OCD—can make faith feel like constant fear of disappointing God. Psychologist Kylie Walls explains that these struggles often stem from deeper attachment patterns shaped in childhood and reinforced by harmful spiritual environments. When leaders are controlling or shaming, the nervous system may learn to view God the same way. Healing is possible with supportive, evidence-based therapy.
Understanding Burnout & Recovery
Burnout is more than stress—it’s emotional exhaustion, disconnection, and loss of purpose. Karen’s story reveals how chronic workplace demands and leadership pressures can spiral into burnout. Learn the signs, impacts, and recovery strategies, including therapy and Christian psychology support. Refuge Psychology, led by registered psychologist Kylie Walls, offers compassionate, faith-sensitive care for leaders and individuals facing burnout and mental health challenges.
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