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The Negativity/Pessimism Schema: When You're Always Expecting Things to Go Wrong
Do you find it hard to trust good times, or feel like you're always waiting for something to go wrong? The Negativity/Pessimism schema may be driving that persistent undercurrent of dread — discover where it comes from and how schema therapy can help.
The Vulnerability to Harm or Illness Schema: When Catastrophe Always Feels Just Around the Corner
Do you live with a persistent sense that something terrible is about to happen? The Vulnerability to Harm or Illness schema may explain that constant feeling of dread — discover where it comes from and how schema therapy can help
The Mistrust/Abuse Schema: When You're Always Waiting to Be Hurt
Do you find it hard to trust people, or expect to be hurt or betrayed in relationships? The Mistrust/Abuse schema may be at the heart of it — discover where it comes from, how it shapes your life, and how schema therapy can help.
The Emotional Inhibition Schema: When Feelings Feel Too Dangerous to Show
Do you find it difficult to show emotions, or feel more comfortable keeping feelings locked away? The Emotional Inhibition schema may explain that pattern — discover where it comes from and how schema therapy can help.
The Dependence/Incompetence Schema: When You Don't Trust Yourself to Cope
Do you struggle to trust your own judgment or feel like you can't cope without others to guide you? The Dependence/Incompetence schema may be at the root of it — discover where it comes from and how schema therapy can help.
The Punitiveness Schema: When Mistakes Deserve to Be Punished
Do you struggle to forgive yourself for mistakes, or find it hard to extend understanding to others when they fall short? The Punitiveness schema may be driving that harsh inner judge — discover where it comes from and how schema therapy can help.
The Defectiveness/Shame Schema: When You Believe Something Is Fundamentally Wrong With You
Do you carry a quiet sense that something is fundamentally wrong with you? The Defectiveness/Shame schema is one of the most painful early maladaptive schemas, discover where it comes from, how it shapes your life, and how schema therapy can help.
The Emotional Deprivation Schema: When You've Always Had to Go Without
Do you feel chronically lonely or like your emotional needs are never quite met? The Emotional Deprivation schema may explain why — discover where it comes from, how it shapes your relationships, and how schema therapy can help.
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