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When Choice Isn’t Really Choice: The Reality of Coercion
What is Coercion? Online Psychologist in Australia Kylie Walls explores how coercion erodes real choice in relationships, workplaces, and faith communities. Learn to identify subtle coercive control, emotional pressure, and implied threats—and discover steps to reclaim autonomy and safety.

Kylie Walls
Jun 2111 min read


From Defensiveness to Dialogue: Tools for Healthier Interactions
Learn how defensiveness affects relationships from Christian psychologist Kylie Walls. Learn why it happens, and practical strategies—including therapy—to improve communication and emotional connection.

Kylie Walls
Jun 166 min read


“Why Am I Like This in Relationships?” A Look at Attachment and Emotional Reactivity
Explore how different attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, secure, and disorganised—impact emotional regulation and relationships. Learn how therapy can support healing and growth through an attachment-informed lens.

Kylie Walls
Jun 138 min read


The Stages of Grooming in Adult Clergy Sexual Exploitation: Understanding the Patterns of Betrayal and Abuse
Explore the seven stages of grooming in adult clergy sexual exploitation, power imbalances, and the need for awareness and prevention in faith communities.

Kylie Walls
Apr 268 min read


The Hidden Harm: Understanding Adult Clergy Sexual Exploitation and the Vulnerabilities of Survivors
Understanding adult clergy sexual exploitation requires insight into spiritual abuse and the psychological dynamics that make victims more vulnerable. This article explores how cognitive dissonance, schema chemistry, and reverence for spiritual leaders can cloud victims' perceptions, making abuse harder to recognize. Highlighting the importance of appropriate vulnerability in relationships and the misuse of pastoral authority, it addresses the spiritual harm victims experienc

Kylie Walls
Apr 268 min read


Why People join and Stay in Spiritually Abusive or high control spiritual Environments
Explore the psychological factors behind why individuals join, remain in and become complicit in spiritually abusive environments

Kylie Walls
Apr 88 min read


Spiritual Abuse: Understanding, Recovering, and escaping the invisible cage
Spiritual abuse can trap individuals in an invisible cage of coercion, emotional dependence, and spiritual manipulation.

Kylie Walls
Apr 87 min read


Understanding Anxiety and Panic
Anxiety and panic attacks can feel overwhelming, like a fire alarm going off when there’s no real danger.

Kylie Walls
Apr 13 min read


Disrupted Attachment, Control, and Emotion Dysregulation: A Path to Violence in Netflix's Adolescence
this article unpacks the psychological forces driving the protagonist’s actions in Netflix's Adolescence

Kylie Walls
Mar 216 min read


Rekindling the Spark: How Couples Therapy Can Revitalise Your Relationship
Discover how the Gottman Method can strengthen your relationship through evidence-based online couples therapy in Australia.

Kylie Walls
Feb 83 min read


Overcoming Compulsions: Reclaiming Life from OCD
"Struggling with intrusive thoughts or compulsive behaviours? You're not alone. This blog post explores Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD).
kyliewalls1
Feb 84 min read


Understanding Religious OCD: A Closer Look at Scrupulosity and Its Impact
Explore scrupulosity (religious OCD), a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder that affects individuals’ spiritual lives. Learn about common

Kylie Walls
Jan 78 min read


When Love Becomes an Invisible Cage: Recognising the Signs of Coercive Control and Emotional Abuse, and Religious Abuse
Struggling with an abusive Christian relationship or coercive control? Find expert support for emotional, spiritual, and relational abuse.

Kylie Walls
Dec 9, 20247 min read


Understanding Control in Relationships: Insights from Our Latest Research
Relationships can be deeply fulfilling but also incredibly complex. For some, the need for control in a relationship can take hold, often...
kyliewalls1
Dec 2, 20244 min read


Unmasking Adult Clergy Sexual Abuse
Explore the subtle dynamics of adult clergy sexual abuse, including grooming and boundary crossing, and how it impacts victims.

Kylie Walls
Nov 28, 20247 min read


Understanding Burnout & Recovery
Explore the causes of burnout and practical strategies for recovery. Learn how to recognise burnout symptoms from a psychologist.

Kylie Walls
Nov 26, 20247 min read


Exploring the Impact of Moral Injury: Strategies for Promoting Resilience in High-Stress Environments
Discover how moral injury, PTSD, and occupational burnout impact mental health in high-stress professions. Learn about the importance of psy

Kylie Walls
Sep 7, 20247 min read


Psychological Support of Parents of Premature Babies
Discover the support available for parents facing trauma from extremely premature births and other birth complications.

Kylie Walls
Aug 31, 20244 min read


The Importance of Exploring Our Past: Lessons from an Old House
Explore how the past shapes our present, from personal traumas to institutional impacts and harm.

Kylie Walls
Aug 30, 20244 min read
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